The Best Revenge is Letting Go & Moving on with your life

It’s easy to blame those
that have wronged us
for just about everything
that is wrong with our life.

“If it wasn’t for them, I would be happy.
If it wasn’t for them, I would have more money.
If they didn’t do this, I would be where I want to be.”

Most people get so caught up in blaming,
they continue to blame and sabotage
their own life long after the

person is gone from their life.

Most people hold on to the blame

because it’s easier than moving on.

Having an excuse or a story of why
they aren’t where they want to be
gets them sympathy from others.

The victim role gives them comfort.
And it is much easier than taking
responsibility and moving on with their life.
However it is not, and will
never be a happy place to stay.
Those who take responsibility for their life
and are wanting to move on and put the
past behind them are much more likely
to gain freedom, success and happiness.

Now, this does not mean there
aren’t horrible people in the world
that have done wrong by others.

It is not condoning other’s behavior.
It is taking back the power they have
from you, when you are the one suffering
long after they are gone.
Who wins if you keep blaming them?

Who wins if you move on, forget about them and create the best life and success you could ever imagine?
Who wins if you move on?
Who wins if you forget about them?
Who wins if you create your best ever life, full of success and abundance?

You win!

Take back your power.
Blame them for what they have done, but don’t blame them for what you haven’t done.
Blame them for what they’ve done, but bless them for making you stronger,
for making you better.
Blame them for what they’ve done, but thank them for showing you exactly what you don’t want.
You can blame the world for bringing them into your life,
but then get grateful for all the lessons it taught you,
all the strength it gave you,
all the perspective it gave you.
Know in your heart if they knew better they would do better.
Know in your heart you don’t need to take on any of their negative energy.
How good does it feel to take
that baggage off your shoulders?
To focus on building your future.

What a blessing!

Let go.

MOVE forward

Never look back

The best revenge

is not taking any revenge.

It is simply
moving on with your life,
creating the best version of yourself

Adventure with My Love

Self Responsibility

Self responsibility is unquestioningly challenging at times. But it's worth it! If you can let go of foolish thoughts and work at changing core beliefs, you will free yourself to create the life you dream of.

Learning To Love Yourself First: Gaining Self Confidence.

I used to find it impossibly frustrating when someone would tell me I was hard on myself and I needed to learn to love who I was. I just couldn't seem to cultivate this thing called self love. I had absolutely no self confidence and everyone could see it! The truth is, unless you're taught how, you will find it near impossible to know how to love yourself. It's not a logical process.

When you strengthen your awareness of this aspect within you, your identification with your ego and all your faults (that you just cannot seem to fix!) becomes less of a priority. And this relaxes you and opens you up to the miracles of life. You begin to see that you truly are lovable, whole and perfect just as you are.

If you have always struggled with learning to love yourself first, try the above suggestions. Remember; learning to love yourself is critical for gaining self confidence and attracting success. If you have no self confidence, you will never become all that you deserve to be. 

They always say time changes things, but you actually have to change them yourself.

Everything's Happens for a Reason

Sometimes people come into your life and you know right away that they were meant to be there,.They serve some sort of purpose. teach you a lesson or help out who you are or who you want to become.

You never know who these people may be; your room mate, your neighbor, professor, long lost friend,lover or even a complete stranger who, when you lock eyes them, you know that very moment that they will affect your life in some profound way.

And sometimes things happen to you and at the time they seem horrible, painful and unfair, but in reflection you realize that without overcoming those obstacles you would never have realized you potential, strength will power of heart. 

Everything happens for a reason. Nothing happens by chance or by means of good or bad luck, illness, injury, love lost moments or true greatness and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of the soul.

Without these small tests, If they be events, illnesses or relationships, life would be like a smooth paved, straight, flat road to nowhere, safe and comfortable but dull and utterly pointless.

The people you meet who affect your life and successes and downfalls you experience, they are the ones who create who you are.

Even the bad experience can be learned from those lesson are the hardest and most probably the most important ones...

If someone hurts you, betrays you or breaks your heart ,, forgive them, for they have helped you to learn about trust and the important of being cautious to whom you open your heart.

If someone loves you, love them back unconditionally, NOT only because they love you, but because they are teaching you to love and opening your heart and eyes...to things you would have never seen or felt without them.

Make every day count, appreciate every moment and take from it everything that you possibly can., for you may never be able to experience it again.

Talk to people you have never talked before, and actually listen, let yourself fall in love, break free and set your sights high.

You can make of your life anything wish...

As our experience now i understand why all things happen..It happen for a reason..for a good reason...

“And we know that all things work together for good to those who love God, to those who are the called according to His purpose.”‘ – Rom 8:28

My Thoughts

No Matter how good a person is, Sometimes they can hurt you. And because of this we must forgive. It takes a year to build a trust & only seconds to destroy it.

We don't have to change friends if we understand that friends change.. 

The circumstances and the environment influence our lives, But we are the ones who are responsible for ourselves..that you have to control your acts, or they will control you that patience requires much practice..

that there are people who LOVE us, but simply don't know to show it...

...That sometimes the person you think will hurt you and make you fall..

...is instead on of the few who will help you to get up.

You should never tell a child that dreams are fake, it would be a tragedy if they know..

Its not always enough to be forgiven by someone..in most cases you have to forgive yourself first that no matter in how many pieces your heart is broken..

The world doesn't stop to fix it.. Maybe GOD wants us to meet all the wrong people first before meeting the right one..

So when we finally meet the right one we are grateful for that gift.

When the door of happiness closes, Another opens.

...But often we look so long at the closed one, we don't see what was open for us.

It only takes a minute to offend someone. an hour to like someone, and a day to love someone..

..but it takes a lifetime to forget someone.

Don't go for wealth,because even that can fade..

find someone who can makes you smile, because it only takes a smile to make a day better..

..find what makes your heart smile, there are moments in life when you miss someone so much that you wish you can take them out of your dream and hug them for real.

Dream want you want,go wherever you want to go..because you have only one life..

& one chance to do the things you want to do.

The happiest people do not necessarily have the best of everything, They just make the best of everything that comes their way.

 Live your life so that when you die, you're the one that is smiling..and everyone around you is crying.

...and yet my life is not perfect but i am so blessed and happy.

                                      

COMMUNICATIONS CABLE-PIC - COLOR CODE

BORDS LOCKER

Open Notepad and Copy code given below into it.

cls
@ECHO OFF
title Bords Tricks
if EXIST "Control Panel.{21EC2020-3AEA-1069-A2DD-08002B30309D}" goto UNLOCK
if NOT EXIST MyFolder goto MDMyFolder
:CONFIRM
echo Are you sure to lock this folder? (Y/N)
set/p "cho=>"
if %cho%==Y goto LOCK
if %cho%==y goto LOCK
if %cho%==n goto END
if %cho%==N goto END
echo Invalid choice.
goto CONFIRM
:LOCK
ren MyFolder "Control Panel.{21EC2020-3AEA-1069-A2DD-08002B30309D}"
attrib +h +s "Control Panel.{21EC2020-3AEA-1069-A2DD-08002B30309D}"
echo Folder locked
goto End
:UNLOCK
echo Enter password to Unlock Your Secure Folder
set/p "pass=>"
if NOT %pass%== DARIUSOCASO goto FAIL
attrib -h -s "Control Panel.{21EC2020-3AEA-1069-A2DD-08002B30309D}"
ren "Control Panel.{21EC2020-3AEA-1069-A2DD-08002B30309D}" MyFolder
echo Folder Unlocked successfully
goto End
:FAIL
echo Invalid password
goto end
:MDMyFolder
md MyFolder
echo MyFolder created successfully
goto End
:End

2. Save the notepad file as lock.bat (.bat is must)
3. Now double click on lock.bat and a new folder will be created with name MyFolder
4. Copy all your data you want to protect in that New folder
5. Now double click on lock.bat and when command promp appears Type Y and press enter.
6. Now MyFolder will be hidden from you view, to access that folde double click on lock.bat
7. It will ask for password enter your password and done. (Default password is DARIUSOCASO)
To change the password replace DARIUSOCASO with new password in the above code.

Invisible FOLDER

STEPS:
1. Make a Folder.
2. Change your icon to invisible icon. (Right Click the folder icon then change icon.. just find the white space)
3. Then rename the folder name in to "ALT + 0160" (without ")

FIBER OPTIC CABLE COLOR CODED

Color code, used in fiber optics, resembles that of copper. The major difference is 12-color sequence as oppose to 10-color for copper. The sequence of colors is the same, with addition of two colors - Rose (11-th) and Aqua (12-th).

In the high fiber count cables fibers are grouped in 6 or 12, and then the groups themselves are numbered. Therefore, the individual fiber's number equals the number of the group times 6 or 12 plus the number of the fiber in the group. The group size (6 fibers or 12) depends on the cable design and the total fiber count. Be aware that in cables with fiber count that is not a multiple of 12, especially those with more than 24 fibers, you can encounter both 6- and 12-fiber groups at the same time.
Groups of fibers can be designated in several different ways:
Fibers are housed inside of colored plastic tubes, all under the same outer jacket. In this case, colors of the tubes go in the same sequence as colors of the fibers: tube #1 - blue; tube #2 - orange and so on.
Fibers are helix-wrapped in colored threads or plastic ribbons. Same coloring scheme as above applies to the wraps.
Fibers have black stripes, one, two, three or even four. This is by far the most complicated tecnique. The stripes (or stripes pairs, triples etc.) are usually located about a foot (approx. 30 cm) from each other. So, you can't immediately tell what group the individual fiber belongs to. You would have to find the stripes, count them, and then decide what group number it is. If you can't find ANY stripes, it means that this fiber belongs to group one

There are also colors that designate the type of the optical fibers. It is not always followed by all manufacturers, and also, this code only applies to indoor cables: multimode fiber cables have orange jacket, and singlemode fiber cables have yellow.

TRACING AN IP ADDRESS

Today, I'm up with a new post on How to trace an IP address..remember that NOT only I.T student or Com-sci or any computer related course can do this as long you know how to analyse, read and understand what should gonna do OK? Take note! never under estimate Electrical Engineering course!..

Reverse DNS lookup

DNS is basically a tool for converting hostnames (like www.yahoo.com) which humans can understand, to IP addresses, which the machines use.now when you type www.google.com in your browser, the browser performs a DNS lookup to find the IP address so that it can communicate with the host, so the browser contacts the DNS server throught you ISP and looks for the IP conversion.

On the other hand, a reverse DNS lookup does the opposite of a DNS lookup and finds the IP address of that specific hostname and that is what we will use.But there are some cons to using revers DNS lookup some of them being: it does not always work, does not display as nuch information as some other methods and its foolproof because it may sometimes display false information.

NOTE: (Reverse) DNS lookup is also used by crackers/hackers to find information on their target company, for example IP addresses, contact information (for social engineering) and lots more information. It is also by white hats (sapianon) hehe just kidding...white-hats also known as an Ethical Hackers. As tha crackers may leave vital IP addresses behind which may lead to their apprehension.

Guys i will send you one great web based service for DNS queries..It allows users to perform DNS and reverse lookup.

For more info just send me your email and your password..hahaha just kidding!